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Discussion BoardYeliz was posted 11/08/2001 09:12 pm by Lillie
Yeliz, I am so glad you brought mama back here with you. You two will be
great comfort for each other. Losing a mate is much harder than losing a
parent in my opinion. Be gentle with yourself and you and mama take care of
each other. We are still here for you when you have a bad day just yell. We
lost dad last February and I went through about 5 different emotions.
Relief, dads no longer suffering. Depression, I won't see him anymore.
Anger, he was a good man and didn't deserve to die like this. Guilt, I let
him down, I didn't try hard enough to find him a cure. Acceptance, thats
what I call my nice place. I still have bad days were I will flip flop back
through all the emotions. I have more good days than bad now and I have
learned to smile with a memory of dad again. I don't think too much on the
bad days of PC anymore. We all grieve differently and at a different rate.
Normal is exactly what you are experiencing at any phase of your grief. You
and mama are in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs Lillie
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